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How To Gain Permission
To Hunt Private Property
Ever wonder why so many detectorists are too shy
to ask permission to hunt private property and take a chance on
passing up some great finds. Private property is virtually the
last untouched hunt sites remaining and the last source of old
gold or silver coins. Are we not proud of our hobby or too ashamed
and embarrassed to be TH’ers? Could this be what prevents us
from knocking on doors? Isn’t it time we gained some positive
feelings about our hobby. Are we any different than anyone else
who enjoys a hobby and shouldn’t we be able to pursue it with
enthusiasm and an element of pride?
One way to accomplish this is by the bold approach
and working towards gaining permission to hunt the site we have
drooled over for so long. You know the ones - the sites we have
been putting off tackling. And we all know why we put it off -
fear of rejection, being cut down to size with a firm no. But
certainly we can muster up a modicum of nerve and shatter this
barrier. In the next few paragraphs I will attempt to help you
with this sticky situation and I don’t profess to be the answer
man but can share with you some tricks that I have learned and
that have helped me down through the years. Perhaps I can inject a
dose of pride into you to stand up and be proud of your hobby. I
know you enjoy it or you wouldn’t be in it or reading this.
First ( and this isn’t easy for shy folks ), if
you have been fawning over a certain site and you haven’t yet
drummed up enough courage to ask permission to hunt it, then stop
drooling and do it. If you don’t it will be eating on you for
years then someday you’ll hear of some other detectorist who
wasn’t bashful and walked into this place and made a killing.
Think about it, ""Why am I so afraid to ask permission
and why am I constantly putting it off?" It will dawn on you
that it’s the old fear of rejection back to haunt you. My reply
to that is, " So what?" All that can happen is the owner
will say no. It’s not life-threatening and he or she isn’t
going to eat you. Just go on to your next favorite site and ask
there. Look at it as gambling, where sometimes you win, sometimes
you lose, or think of yourself as a door-to-door salesman. They
don’t make a sale every time. In reality, very few people will
turn you down if you approach them correctly and none of them
resemble ogres. Most are basically very nice folks.
There are several ways to work this out and
approach the owner, in person, by telephone, or by mail. Before
attempting any of these ( don’t just waltz in cold ) prepare for
your encounter by writing down on paper just exactly what you wish
to say. What this boils down to is a selling job and you and the
hobby are the product. In most instances the person you confront
will know little or nothing about you or the hobby so have your
spiel well prepared. The points you will need to present are:
(1) Exactly who you are, where you live, where you
work, who you know, etc.
(2) That you are a dependable, reputable, honest,
responsible, upstanding person.
(3) Explain carefully how long you have admired
this property ( a little ego stroking doesn’t hurt to a prideful
homeowner ) and why you want to hunt it.
(4) A brief explanation of what your hobby is all
about and how long you have been at it and how experienced you
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